Wednesday, August 19, 2026

17 Effective Cures for Jealousy: Humility, Repentance and Protection from the Evils of Kahins and Jinn

What is a Kahin?

A kahin (fortune-teller) is the one who asks jinns about the unseen and then tells others. The Holy Qur’an has clearly said that jinns do not possess knowledge of the unseen. People who capture jinns and ask them reasons of diseases and things of the unseen must repent. People who think that bodies can be possessed by the spirits of pious saints are severely mistaken, they are actually possessed by jinns that falsely claim to be saints and use a few words of wisdom to draw attention towards them. Their true purpose is not to spread goodness but to have fun by gathering men and women. Areas and families where ignorance prevails are usually full of such jinn jokes.

Jinn Friends

A’la Hazrat رَحْمَةُ اللهِ عَلَيْه says that Sayyidunā Shaikh Muhiyuddeen ibn Arabi رَحْمَةُ اللهِ عَلَيْه says, “The least amount of harm that is caused by making a jinn your friend is that it makes you arrogant. An arrogant man is a fool. He seriously believes that arrogance will earn him respect, which is a serious mistake because humbleness makes a man great. Flowers only blossom on soil that is soft and humble.

Humility Leads to Greatness

A Hadith states, “The one who adopts humility for the pleasure of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ, will be raised to the level of the illiyyeen and the one who is arrogant in the affairs of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ his level will be reduced untill he reaches the lowest level”.

(Musnad Imam Ahmad, Hadith 11724, V4, P152)

17 Cures for Jealousy

My Dear Islamic Brothers! Jealousy is Harām, which means to cure ones self of it is Fard. Here is a list of 17 ways to cure jealousy:

1.     Plead in the court of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ for relief from this disease.

2.     One should constantly remind himself of the harms of jealousy.

3.     Tell yourself, “What will happen to me, if Allah and His Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم become displeased with me and jealousy leads me to Hell forever.”

4.     One should think of death abundantly. The Musnad of Imam Ahmad mentions this statement of Sayyidunā Abu Darda رَضِيَ اللهُ عَنْه, “The one who remembers his death in abundance, his jealousy and joys will decrease.”

(Ittihaf-us-Sadah, V14, P29)

5.     Thinking about people better than ones self usually results in a lack of self confidence, which in turn creates jealousy. This Hadith of the blessed Prophet صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم mentioned by Ibn-e-Maja should always be kept in mind by every single Muslim, “Look at the people who are inferior to you and do not look at those who are superior to more, if you do this you will not look down at any thing that Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ has granted you.”

(Sunan Ibn-e-Maja, Hadith 4142, V4, P443, Dar-ul-Ma’rifah Beirut)

6.     A hasid begins to hate the mahsood, so he should think of ways to start liking him.

7.     Be the first to say Salaam when you meet him.

8.     Show enthusiasm when you meet him.

9.     If possible give gifts.

10. Pray for blessing in whatever he possess that has caused you to be jealous.

11. Avoid speaking ill of him and if someone else speaks ill of him avoid listening.

12. Visit and consolidate him in times of sickness and troubles.

13. Provide help when he needs it.

14. Praise him (without lying) in abundance in the presence of other people.

15. If someone else praises him, show happiness.

16. Benefit the mahsood as much as possible.

At least do this

My Dear Islamic Brothers! Hujja-tul-Islam Sayyidunā Imam Muhammad Ghazali رَحْمَةُ اللهِ عَلَيْه says in Ihya-ul-Uloom (Volume 3), “If one prevents himself from outwardly displaying jealousy, and despises the presence of it internally, and despises the desire to see others in loss, and feels angry at himself for being jealous then he has done what was humanly possible for him. Despite such efforts, if any feeling of jealousy remains in ones heart he will not be blamed for it”. For a detailed discussion on the cures of jealousy, please refer to the chapter concerning this topic in the third volume of Imam Muhammad Ghazali’s Ihya-ul-Uloom. For curing jealousy and other internal diseases, regularly travel in the Madanī Qafilas of Dawat-e-Islami and to gain steadfastness in the avoidance of sins, act upon the Madanī In’aamaat and fill your Madanī In’aamaat card every night by doing Fikr-e-Madina and hand it in to the Islamic brother in charge of your local area every month. اِنْ شَآءَاللّٰه عَزَّوَجَلَّ you will see its blessings for yourself.

Repent Instantly

My Dear Islamic brothers! Soon we are going to die, leave this world and rest in our graves. We will face a severe test on the day of judgement, when the sun will be blazing at us from a distance of one and a quarter miles, the earth will be made of burning copper, none of us knows whether he will enter Heaven or Hell. So fear Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and repent instantly.

O Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ we repent from every minor and major sin, O Lord of Mustafa صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم forgive us.

اٰمِيْن بِجَاهِ النَّبِيِّ الْاَمِيْن صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم

Trust Allah's عَزَّوَجَلَّ mercy, repent of your past sins with shame, اِنْ شَآءَاللّٰه عَزَّوَجَلَّ your repentance will be accepted. A Hadith states: ‘The one who repents of the sin is like the one who has not committed the sin at all.’

(Ibn-e-Maja, V4, P491, Hadith 4250, Dar-ul-Ma'rifah Beirut)

Apart from repenting, seek forgiveness from all those people whom you have caused trouble to. The more a person comes into contact with people, the more chances there are for the violation of rights. I myself come into contact with a huge number of people, and rights are probably violated too. Hundreds of thousands of Muslims are listening to me at this moment in this 1422 A.H. international 3 day gathering of Dawat-e-Islami. Seizing this opportunity, I request you to grant me forgiveness for the sake of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ and His beloved صَلَّى اللهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم if I have ever caused you grief. If I owe anything to anyone and have not yet returned it please ask for it instantly, if I have borrowed anything and not yet returned it, please take it off me instantly or else forgive me. I myself have forgiven every Muslim my rights in advance, even if I am martyred, the killer is forgiven on behalf of myself, if this does happen I do not want anyone staging any sort of riot or protest on my behalf. Strikes, in which Muslims are forced to shut their shops, people fight amongst themselves, and vehicles are burnt, are Harām and will lead to Hell.

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