Saturday, August 22, 2026

Controlling the Nafs and Patience in Hardships | Islamic Lessons from the Auliyā of Allah

41. Maḥmūd, Ayāz and slice of cucumber

It is reported that once a person gifted a cucumber to Sultan Maḥmūd Ghaznawī عَلَيْهِ رَحْمَةُ اللّٰهِ الْقَوِي, a renowned devotee of Rasūl. The sultan accepted the gift and gave the person a reward. He then cut off a slice and handed it to his beloved slave Ayāz who consumed the slice relishing its taste. Then, Sultan Maḥmūd cut another slice, this time for himself. As soon as he put it into his own mouth, he spat it out instantly, as it was too bitter. Astonished at Ayāz, he asked, 'Ayāz! How did you eat such a bitter thing? Even your facial expression did not reveal any sign of displeasure.' Ayāz replied, 'Respected Sultan! There is no doubt that the piece of cucumber was extremely bitter. When I placed it in my mouth, my wisdom asked me to spit it out but my love told me, "O Ayāz, beware! This is the same hand which gives you sweet things to eat every day. If it gives you something bitter to eat only one day, it does not matter. To spit it out is contrary to the etiquette of love." Therefore, following the command of love, I consumed the bitter slice of cucumber.'

(Rahbar-e-Zindagī, pp. 167)

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on them and forgive us without accountability for their sake!

Dear Islamic brothers! Being a Muslim, we all should have the same frame of mind. If Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ, who has bestowed upon us countless favours, ever tests us with troubles and trials, we should accept them happily. The great is not the one who is loyal only when his object of devotion shows affection for him, but the one who is loyal even when he is ignored by the one he has affection for.

Woh 'ishq-e-ḥaqīqī kī laẕẕāt nahīn pā saktā
Jo ranj-o-muṣībat say dauchār nahīn ĥotā

He cannot taste the true love and devotion
Who does not face adversity and harsh condition

صَلُّوْا عَلَى الْحَبِيْبِ ! صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

42. Non-Muslim monk embraces Islam

Making individual effort, a saint once presented Islam to a non-Muslim monk. After a lengthy debate and argument, the monk replied, 'It was a miracle of Sayyidunā Prophet 'Isā عَلَيْهِ السَّلَام that he would not eat anything for forty consecutive days. This act can only be performed by a Prophet and a Ṣiddīq.' The saint رَحْمَةُاللهِتَعَالٰیعَلَیْہِ replied, 'If I remain hungry for fifty consecutive days, would you embrace Islam giving up your religion and realize that Islam is the true religion and that you are following falsehood?' The non-Muslim replied 'Yes.' Therefore, the saint رَحْمَةُاللهِتَعَالٰیعَلَیْہِ stayed with him for fifty consecutive days without consuming anything. He رَحْمَةُاللهِتَعَالٰیعَلَیْہِ then stayed hungry for another ten days. Having seen this saintly miracle, the monk embraced Islam forthwith.

(Iḥyā-ul-'Ulūm, vol. 3, pp. 98)

Dear Islamic brothers! No one should misunderstand this parable. It must not be assumed that the saint surpassed Sayyidunā Prophet 'Isā عَلٰی نَبِیَّنَا وَعَلَیْہِ الصَّلٰوۃُ وَالسَّلَام in status. It is a fundamental Islamic belief that no saint can ever surpass the status of a Prophet عَلَيْهِ السَّلَام. The one believing that a saint is greater than a Holy Prophet عَلَيْهِ السَّلَام immediately becomes a Kāfir (unbeliever). The monk was under the impression that after Sayyidunā Prophet 'Isā عَلٰی نَبِیَّنَا وَعَلَیْہِ الصَّلٰوۃُ وَالسَّلَام, no devotee of Prophet Muhammad صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلَيْهِ وَاٰلِهٖ وَسَلَّم could stay hungry for forty days. The saint cleared the misconception of the monk by showing the saintly miracle of staying hungry for 40 days, making it clear that staying hungry for 40 days is not the unique attribute of Sayyidunā Prophet 'Isā عَلَيْهِ السَّلَام, and the devotees of the Holy Prophet can remain alive despite staying hungry for 60 days.

43. Rice and fish

It is reported that a saint رَحْمَةُاللهِتَعَالٰیعَلَیْہِ from Basra refrained from eating fish, rice and bread for 20 years despite the strong desire of his Nafs. After his death, someone saw him in a dream and asked as to how Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ treated him. He replied, 'Words cannot express the bounties Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ has bestowed upon me. First, I was given fish, rice and bread and was told to eat as much as I wished.'

(Ihyā-ul-'Ulūm, vol. 3, pp. 103)

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on him and forgive us without accountability for his sake!

Dear Islamic brothers! Did you see how great the status of those who do not follow their Nafs is? Congratulations to those fortunate people who succeed in bearing hunger, avoiding worldly joys and thus opposing their Nafs just for the pleasure of Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ! After death, they will be blessed with superb bounties in Paradise. Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ says in Sūrah Al-Ḥāqqah, verse 24:

كُلُوْا وَاشْرَبُوْا هَنِيْٓئًۢا بِمَآ اَسْلَفْتُمْ فِى الْاَيَّامِ الْخَالِيَةِ

Eat and drink with relish, recompense for that you sent forth in the days gone by.

[Kanz-ul-Īmān (Translation of Quran)] (Part 29, Sūrah Al-Ḥāqqah, verse 24)

44. Beneficial to one's heart

Sayyidunā Shaykh Abū Sulaymān Dārānī قَدَّسَ سِرُّهُ الرَّبَّانِيّ has said, 'To refrain from any desire of Nafs is more beneficial to the heart than a year's fasting and staying up at night (in worship).'

(Iḥyā-ul-'Ulūm, vol. 3, pp. 103)

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on him and forgive us without accountability for his sake!

صَلُّوْا عَلَى الْحَبِيْبِ ! صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

45. Valīmah in Paradise

Hujjat-ul-Islam, Sayyidunā Imām Muhammad Ghazālī عَلَيْهِ رَحْمَةُ اللّٰهِ الْوَالِي has stated, 'The saints walking on the path of the Hereafter would avoid the fulfilment of their desires because if a person eats different delicious things to satisfy his desires, his Nafs becomes arrogant and his heart becomes hard. Further, he becomes so interested in the delicious worldly things that the love of worldly joys permanently stays in his heart and he forgets that he will have to stand before his Creator, Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ. The world is like Paradise and death is like a prison for such a person. On the contrary, the one who treats his Nafs strictly and deprives it of worldly pleasures; the world becomes like a prison for him, he feels uncomfortable in the world and his Nafs likes to get free from the imprisonment of life by leaving the world through death.' Referring to the same point, Sayyidunā Yaḥyā Mu'āẓ Rāzī رَحْمَةُاللهِتَعَالٰیعَلَیْہِ has stated, 'O the Ṣiddīqīn! In order to eat Valīmah (wedding-feast) in Paradise, keep yourself hungry because the desire for food intensifies as much as the Nafs remains hungry.

In other words, when a person is extremely hungry, he really feels the joy of eating. This is the same thing experienced by every fasting person. Therefore, remain as hungry as possible in the world so that you can enjoy the delicious food of Paradise.

(ibid, pp. 99)

May Allah عَزَّوَجَلَّ have mercy on him and forgive us without accountability for his sake!

صَلُّوْا عَلَى الْحَبِيْبِ ! صَلَّى اللّٰهُ تَعَالٰى عَلٰى مُحَمَّد

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